观看王光国的心得体会:你来自那种家庭，三口之家还是大家庭？ 这两种家庭各有那些优点和缺点？

I come from a nuclear family, but I hope I could be in an extended family. There are several advantages for nuclear family. For example, my parents will pay more attention on me because I am the only kid in my house. So whenever I am at home, they will listen to me and we can talk more about our feeling. Also, I can be better understand what my parents expect from me as well as what they are thinking about me. They will tell me on what they think in their heart instead of saying something to show off. However, the disadvantage to be in a nuclear family is I will not always meet my grandparents and I will feel there is a gap between my grandparents and me. Also, whenever I am sick and my parents need to work, I will be home alone instead of having someone else to take care of me.

The advantage of living in an extended family is that I will have a closer relationship with the family members. They will take good care of me for my parents whenever I need care, especially when I am sick and my parents are at work. Another advantage is that I can play around with my cousins, so I will not be bored. You know there is only one child allowed per family, so living in an extended family can fulfill my dream of having someone in the same age of me to live together. However, there are also disadvantages for living in an extended family. First, I will not have too much closed conversation with my parents because there are always someone else around. My parents will not comment anything bad I have done in front of the other people. As the result, I will never know what my parents are thinking unless there is no one around. Second, my parents might pay less attention on me because they think there are many people care and love me.

So both types of family have their advantages and disadvantages.