小品吃面条乔杉台词:嫁给移民到国外的中国男人好呢还是嫁给外国人好呢？？

Let me try. I am an overseas Chinese for 20 years, and have friends married to non Chinese.

First, why do you want to get married? To me, I want love, affection, sharing and caring, social relationship and sex. Of course, me and my wife should work together financially to raise the kids and maintain the family.

What are you looking for? Since I am getting older, I realize love is only a matter of chemical interaction, which will become less and less over time.

I had lived for a few years with a Canadian girl to share my experience with you, particularly about the difficulties in cross cultural marriage.

When you talk about外国人, what do you mean? African? Or Indian? Let me assume you are talking about white American, Canadian, or Australian.

1. Shower/bath. Most Chinese would have a shower or bath before bed. Do you know most foreigners have a shower the first thing in the morning? They seldom have a bath before bed despite the odour. Now, I dont bathe in the evening but in the morning. This is a habit I take years to change and it is very difficult for Chinese to adapt to.

2. Food. Forget your Sichuan hot food. In the almost 5 years, me and my girlfriend mostly ate separate. Now, I eat blue cheese, but also enjoy sichuan and hunan cuisine.

3. Money. Do you know every month end, me and my girlfriend would gather together to count the bills and spilt all expenses. She has her own bank account and I have mine. If you think your alien husband will support your life, forget it. If you don't have an income, he will kick you out. This is fair. When I separated from my girlfriend, I didn't owe her anything, and nor did she.

4. In-laws. Do you know your white husband would not live with your parents or sponsor them to Canada? If they come to visit, they can stay for a week. Anything longer than that, they will have to sleep in a hotel room.

5. Life-style. Do you know they won't give you a shit if you spend money on Louis Vuitton, or Prada or luxury like that. They would go camping and fishing, which you can't never stand.

6. Language. Do you know I have 3 university degrees and master English very well at work? At odds, I have difficulties communicating with my girlfriend, and so did she, particularly related to our feelings. I swear to God, from now on, if I have any intimate relationship, I will speak Chinese only.

7. Sex. This is where the misconception is from. To me, a Canadian woman is not different from a Chinese woman.

8. Divorce. I once worked for a company and there were 20 people there. In 8 years I was there, everyone got divorced or separated. Even some of them had got married and divorced 2 or 3 times. I find Canadians are quite loyal to their spouse during marriage, but once they feel their love is gone, they will divorce without hesitation.

How about overseas Chinese? It depends how westernized he is. My behaviour is not much different from the Canadians.

Lastly, may I ask you again why you want to get married? For love, you just fine the love one. That's it.

For a passport or a traditional Chinese type of marriage in which a husband would support a wife, you will have a better chance with an overseas Chinese, in most cases.

Have second thoughts about a white foreigners. The cultural differences are at times too huge for you to overcome.

Just my 2 cents. Good luck.

这没有说发,中国人坏的很多,好的也有,外国人也一样,所以要看感觉,你遇上什么样的,你们合的来就够拉.

嫁中国人也好，外国人也好，重要的是两个人真心相爱。

有些人以嫁给外国人为荣！

爱国就嫁娶中国人！外国人有什么好的！从前就知道侵占和攻打中国！

嫁给自己的丈夫最好！